How Books Can Help Children Navigate Their Feelings
Emotions are a natural part of being human, and for children, understanding and managing those feelings can be a complex journey. As children grow, they experience a wide range of emotions from joy and excitement to fear and frustration. Learning how to identify, express, and regulate these feelings is an important skill that will serve them throughout their lives. One powerful tool in helping children navigate their emotions is books.
Books offer children a safe, imaginative space to explore their emotions, learn new ways to manage their feelings, and understand the emotions of others. Whether through stories of self-discovery, empathy-building narratives, or examples of emotional resilience, books can equip children with the tools they need to navigate their emotional world. By reading stories that reflect their inner experiences, children can build a foundation of emotional intelligence that will serve them well throughout their lives.
Top Kid's Books to Help Understand and Manage Emotions
Kid's Anger
Tired of telling your child not to shout or kick things when they are angry? Then this book is the perfect solution for you!
When children are angry, they can manifest their anger through bad behavior. They might shout, cry, throw things and roll on the floor or all of these things combined. That's why most parents need help managing their kids emotions and feelings.
This book about little Nick:
contains lovely illustrations and lightly rhyming storyline
helps children recognize and cope with their anger in a funny way through communication with zoo animals
offers a variety of calming techniques and is aimed to improve kids self-regulation skills
teaches children to admit their mistakes and say “I’m sorry”
includes a bonus colouring page
Kid's Empathy
Teach your children the power of Kindness, one of the most important skills a child can learn.
Are you one of 90 percent of parents, saying that their top priorities for their kids is to be caring? This makes sense: Kindness and concern for others are held as moral virtues in nearly every society and every major religion.
The best social-emotional learning (SEL) book for raising kind children.
This charming story with peaceful rhymes and colorful illustrations will explain to your child that it is okay to make a mistake and say I’m sorry. Lucas will teach your child good manners and positive behaviour at home, at school, in the store, and on the playground.
Kid's Being Afraid
An inspiring picture book affirmation about having courage even in difficult times, because some days, when everything around you seems scary, you have to be brave.
Saying goodbye to neighbours. Worrying about new friends. Passing through a big city. Seeing a dark road ahead. In these moments, a young girl feels small and quiet and alone. But when she breathes deeply and looks inside herself, a hidden spark of courage appears, one she can nurture and grow until she glows inside and out.
New York Times bestselling author Pat Zietlow Miller's uplifting words join New York Times bestselling illustrator Eliza Wheeler's luminous art to inspire young readers to embrace their inner light--no matter what they're facing--and to be brave.
Kid's Fear of Darkness
The adorable and indomitable Tiny T. Rex from the critically acclaimed Tiny T. Rex and The Impossible Hug is back in a tale about friendship and overcoming your fears.
Meet Tiny T-Rex! He may be a small dino in a BIG world, but that won't stop him from making friends, conquering his fears, and stomping his way into your heart.
Tiny T. Rex and his friend Pointy are having a campout in the backyard! It is what best friends do. But without their nighty-lights, the dark outside suddenly seems VERY dark . . . and very full of spooky things. Good thing Tiny has a super-secret plan to keep the dark at bay! Full of warmth and plenty of laughs, this new adventure starring Tiny T. Rex shows that friends will always find a way to face their fears together—even when those fears are not what they seem!
Kid's Be A Good Friend
#1 New York Times Bestseller!
From award-winning actress and mental-health advocate Taraji P. Henson, You Can Be a Good Friend (No Matter What!) shows kids the great things that can happen when we approach others and ourselves with empathy, patience, and love.
In this debut picture book from Taraji P. Henson, quirky, stylish and a bit off-the-cuff Lil TJ is ready for her first day of school. But when she gets there, TJ finds that everything she does is a little different than everyone else and she’s standing out in all the wrong ways. Once TJ’s classmate Beau notices, he relentlessly teases her. TJ is filled with anxiety and doubt until she recalls some important words of wisdom from her Grandma Patsy. When she looks inside to her own creativity and personality, she figures out how to help herself make new friends! —and helps someone else too!
You Can Be a Good Friend (No Matter What!) is the perfect read for:
Easing back-to-school jitters and setting a course for the new school year
Helping children ages 4-8 to overcome anxieties and embrace what makes them unique
Classroom and library story time, as well as bedtime reading
Promoting mental wellness and learning socialization skills, embracing the importance of standing in their own uniqueness, and promoting friendship over bullying.
Validation of Emotions
Books allow children to see that it’s okay to feel a wide range of emotions, even those that may be difficult to understand or deal with. Whether it's a story about a character feeling sad, anxious, or angry, children can feel reassured that they are not alone in their experiences. When children read about characters overcoming fears or navigating tough situations, they realize that emotions are part of life and that everyone has the capacity to work through them.
Teaching Emotional Vocabulary
For many young children, emotions can feel like an abstract concept. Books introduce a rich vocabulary of feelings, helping kids connect words to their emotions. For example, when children learn to identify words like "frustrated," "excited," or "confused," they become better equipped to express their emotions in healthy ways. Recognizing and labeling their feelings allows kids to talk about their experiences, whether with parents, friends, or teachers.
Modeling Emotional Regulation
Many children’s books feature characters who model how to cope with emotions. A character might practice taking deep breaths when feeling anxious, find a creative solution to a problem that makes them frustrated, or talk through their worries with a friend. These coping mechanisms offer children a toolkit for managing their own emotional responses. Reading about these strategies can make them more likely to try out similar techniques when they face their own challenges.
Building Empathy and Understanding
Books also serve as windows into the experiences of others, allowing children to empathize with characters who have different backgrounds or face different challenges. By putting themselves in the shoes of the characters, children develop a deeper understanding of how other people might feel. This helps them build empathy, learn about different emotional perspectives, and create connections with their peers.
Providing Comfort and Reassurance
Sometimes, children just need reassurance that everything will be okay. Books about overcoming fear, loss, or change can provide comfort during difficult times. For example, stories about children who face fears of the dark or moving to a new school can help children process their anxieties and feel less isolated. These stories demonstrate that challenges are temporary and that it is possible to grow stronger in the face of adversity.
Choosing the Right Books
When selecting books to help children understand emotions, it's important to consider the age and developmental stage of the child. Picture books, for instance, are ideal for younger children, with their bright illustrations and simple narratives.
It’s also important to choose stories with diverse characters and situations. Books featuring a variety of emotional experiences, from joy to loss to success, help children expand their emotional literacy and learn about different ways people cope with their feelings.